Bruce E. Betts

Message from Monica Bonvicini

I apologize for the tardy condolences. I been tied up with life that I noticed that Mr. Betts passed away. I had him for sophomore history class. He was an excellent teacher. He helped me tremendously with my study and note taking skills. He took the time to help me and all of his students. He encouraged all his students to strive and he never gave up on a student. He really wanted everybody to succeed. I have used the study and note taking skills throughout nursing school and currently in Nurse Practitioner school. I really enjoyed his class he was one of the best teachers I ever had. I am sad to hear of his passings. I do think of his class often. RIP. Monica Bonvicini class of 1993.

A candle was lit by Gary Borla on March 4, 2019 11:44 AM

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So sorry to hear of Mr. Bett's passing. As others have said, he was a wonderful
teacher.......a positive influence and friend to many.

A candle was lit by Jimmy Toloski on August 23, 2018 10:18 AM

Message from Ray Holtman

Cathy, sorry to read about your loss in the Elks letter about Bruce, it has been years that we worked together and I hope you are doing OK. Give my best to your family and if you do get to the Cale, call me.

Message from Ray Holtman

Cathy, I want to express my sympathy to you and your. family. It has been years, but those times at the the Torrington Company and knowing both you and Bruce, will not be forgotten.

Message from Eileen Coleman

Bruce - you were the best!! No one even came close to your warmth, personality, smile, kindness and that treasured sense of humour. God bless your wife and children - their loss has to be so painful but hopefully they will remember all the fond times you had with them and the love you gave to them. Love you Bruce - may your soul rest in peace. Keep watch my friend.

Message from Barbara Selmo

I never had Mr. Betts in class, but he was such a presence at THS and such a kind man. He loved his work and it showed. He was always cheerful and funny, which means a lot to a high school student. My condolences to the Betts family for your loss.

A candle was lit by Barbara Selmo on February 26, 2018 8:26 AM

Message from Timothy J. Mannion, Montclair, NJ, THS 1978

So very sorry to see this obituary. It doesn't begin to capture the spirit of the teach i remember so well from my THS days. Mr. Betts was fond of predictions; happily for the world, he missed out on one: he told us to get a map, and start coloring in all the countries under communism, because it would continue to spread, Of course, this was pre-Gorbachev, pre-Glasnost. So thankfully, that prediction proved false! But I've never forgotten it. Sorry to hear of his loss.

A candle was lit by Bob Pozner, Minnetonka, MN on January 30, 2018 11:03 AM

Message from Bob Pozner

Cathy, I am so sad to hear of Bruce's passing. I consider him one of my best friends and will always remember all the fun times we had growing up in Springfield. My heartfelt sympathy to you and your children and their families and to Terry and his family. My prayers are with you all. God bless!

Message from Sheila Brown

In the four years I spent at THS in the 1980's, I cannot recall a time when Mr. Betts was not smiling. He was truly a kind and caring person, who had amazing grace and patience. He is forever in my memory as a great teacher and a great mentor. My condolences to his friends and family......

Message from Vicki

He was a great teacher and a very compassionate man. He helped me greatly in high school. Condolences to the family.

A candle was lit by Eva (Fadgyas) D'Amato THS 75 on January 21, 2018 7:44 PM

A candle was lit by Dona Frauenhofer on January 21, 2018 6:35 PM

Message from Lee Tedesco

May all of your happy memories bring you comfort and peace. My prayers are with your family at this sad time.

A candle was lit by Sarah Tolisano on January 21, 2018 9:43 AM

Message from Lisa Bourque Ga

Mr. Betts was my teacher in 1997-1998 and I clearly remember his humor, wit, and generosity with learning, as well as his way of connecting with his students to bring them along in history. I send my condolences to Mike and the whole family in this time of loss and celebrating Mr. Betts wonderful life.

Message from Tina Rhodes

Sharon, Michelle, and the entire family, I am so very sorry for your loss. In addition to being a talented teacher, I remember Mr. B as always bringing humor to the THS community. He will be dearly missed.

A candle was lit by Tina Rhodes on January 21, 2018 8:11 AM

A candle was lit by sandy smith crowley on January 21, 2018 8:09 AM

A candle was lit by DEB ROY on January 20, 2018 9:44 PM

Message from Bob Byrne

Cathy,
Bruce started teaching at THS after I had graduated but I first heard about his great wit and teaching from my younger brother, Steve. And then I got to know Bruce, his wit and easy-going manner personally while I worked at Gazebo for a short while when he moonlit after school and weekends. He was part of what made working there enjoyable even on hectic days. In an earlier post, the Bovi's mentioned the employees and friends that would socialize after work, where I met you. I'm so sorry to hear of his passing much too soon at what we now think of as a young age. It's wonderful to see all of the other posts from his students that show his value as a teacher and positive influence on kids at such a formative time in their lives. I hope that eases your sadness even a little. My sympathy and best wishes to you and all of your family.

Message from Chris

Good guy. He kept me in school a little longer. Although I finally did drop out of school and took a different path. I did take his words to heart and became a successful business woman and Philanthropist in the arts and senior issues. Yes, I drove him up the walls.
Christine Bekasi
(Sort of Class of 69)

A candle was lit by Corinna Doughty on January 20, 2018 12:58 AM

Message from Steve .

Dear Cathy and family,
We are so very sorry for your loss. We bought our first home from you and Bruce (Laurel Hill Rd). May he Rest In Peace.

A candle was lit by Jan mella on January 19, 2018 8:23 PM

Message from Marilyn Germano Trabold

Heartfelt condolences to Mrs. Betts and the whole family. Mr. Betts was a wonderful teacher, and an even more wonderful person. I loved being in his class. Rest in peace.

A candle was lit by Noreen Rae on January 19, 2018 7:33 PM

Message from Allison Doty

Mike and family,
We’re so sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved father!! Our thoughts and prayers are with you,
Love, The Doty Family

A candle was lit by The Doty Family on January 19, 2018 3:37 PM

Message from Karin Besanceney Guzek

I can honestly say that Mr. Betts was my favorite teacher at THS. He had a real passion for history.
As I look back through life, there are few educators that remain in my memory like Mr.. Betts.

Class of 1974

Message from Louisa Monti-Bovi and Jeff Bovi

Dear Cathy and family,
We were saddened to learn of Bruce's passing. Bruce was a wonderful friend with a heart of gold and a winning smile. We will always cherish our fun times socializing and working with Bruce at the Gazebo at the Torrington Parkade. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Louisa Monti- Bovi and Jeff Bovi

Message from Kelli (Killingbeck) Schaller / THS '86

Mrs. Betts & family - my deepest sympathies to you all. Mr. Betts was one of the best - a great teacher whom I'll always remember smiling in the halls of B Third between classes. He really made me earn my grade in World Civ - all those notes! I remember fondly him poking fun at the class saying, "if any of you actually spelled out the whole word Mediterranean, you are lousy note takers!" This photo is such a perfect snapshot of him. You can see from all the candles lit here that he was truly loved and respected - such a legacy to leave. RIP Mr. Betts. Warmly, Kelli K.

A candle was lit by Kelli (Killingbeck) Schaller on January 19, 2018 1:17 PM

A candle was lit by Claus Propfe and Family on January 19, 2018 10:24 AM

Message from Emilio Zordan

Cathy, my thoughts and prayers to you and your family.Bruce was truly a special person

A candle was lit by Emilio Zordan on January 19, 2018 9:55 AM

A candle was lit by Linda Jacob on January 19, 2018 9:36 AM

Message from Claus H. Propfe

Dear Cathy,
My thoughts and prayers are with you, I will never forget his smile when I would see you around town and church. Never forget long ago times at the Torrington Co. What a ride you two had. Always Claus

Message from Mike Hiles

To Mrs. Betts and family, my sincerest condolences. I met Bruce at Sky Top Lanes,what a wonderful person. He made us all laugh with his great sense of humor. When Bruce rolled a strike, most of the place yelled out BRUCEEEEE. He was and always wil be a great friend, I can not wait to bowl with him again upstairs!
God Bless the Betts family and friends. Go Sooners!

A candle was lit by Mike and Kelly Rest in Peace Mr. Betts-a true gentleman on January 19, 2018 7:56 AM

A candle was lit by Emily Alduini Barbero on January 19, 2018 5:26 AM

Message from Adina Matisoff

My condolences to the entire Betts family. I have fond memories of Mr. Betts teaching history during my sophomore year at THS. He was animated and had a passion for teaching that inspired me. To this day he pops into my head when I think about the Opium Wars! May his memory be a blessing.

A candle was lit by Donna Cataldo on January 18, 2018 9:28 PM

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A candle was lit by Nancy Houghtaling on January 18, 2018 6:44 PM

Message from Diane (Fantozzi) Abrams

Every time I pull out my THS class book of 1972 and see photos of Mr. Betts, our class advisor, I am reminded of just how important a bright, caring high school teacher can be. He clearly loved to teach, and he was one of the best. Thank you, Mr. Betts.

Message from Marlene and John Sorvillo

Dear Cathy and family,
We are so sorry to hear of Bruce's passing. He was a kind hearted soul and a wonderful colleague to work with. Sending our sincerest sympathy and prayers.
Love, Marlene and John

A candle was lit by David Burpee on January 18, 2018 6:09 PM

A candle was lit by Marlene and John Sorvillo on January 18, 2018 6:01 PM

A candle was lit by Lisa Soliani Croci on January 18, 2018 5:55 PM

Message from Tracy (Betts) Iturralde and family

You are all in my thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry I am not with you all. I am so thankful for all the wonderful memories I have of Uncle Bruce. I love you so very much!!!

A candle was lit by Tracy (Betts) Iturralde on January 18, 2018 5:49 PM

A candle was lit by Joyce Knox So Sorry.....R.I.P. Bruce on January 18, 2018 5:24 PM

Message from Annette Rouleau Janco

Dear Cathy and family,
I just want to extend my sincere sympathy to you and all the Betts family. How blessed we all were to have known Bruce, his sincere and gentle demeanor, his kindness, his smile... How I will miss that smile whenever he would come into Georges . I hope you can find some comfort knowing he is resting peacefully in the loving arms of our Lord- no more suffering. Sending hugs and prayers your way during this sad time. Sincerely- Annette (and Rob) Janco

Message from Rob Martin

Cathy, Mike, Kelly and Family
I am sadden to hear about the passing of Bruce, It was truly a pleasure working with Bruce at THS for 20 years He was a true gentleman and the ultimate professional. I witnessed first hand how all of his students respected his expertise and good will. He never gave up on a student, especially the ones who struggled. I will always remember his laugh and quick wit, I have the best memories of him and all his colleagues up on the Social Studies Wing at THS.
Celebrating the life of a good man and mourning his passing with you, with deepest sympathy, thinking of you.

Message from Cathy

Dear Rob, Thank you for thinking of us at this time. Bruce truly had a wonderful ride at THS with all you guys! We never could stop smiling! We will miss him but we take solace in knowing he has left behind some of the most wonderful friends and colleagues and memories that will last forever. Take care, my friend. Regards, Cathy

A candle was lit by Joyce Peck on January 18, 2018 4:24 PM

Message from Owen Canfield III

Mrs. Betts,
My life was never the same after having Mr. Betts as my teacher my sophomore year at THS, in 1975. He spoke often, and glowingly, about his time in Oklahoma -- the nice people, the wide-open spaces, etc. -- and in 1975 he spent part of each Monday during the college football season reminding us of how his Sooners had beaten up on someone on the previous Saturday. I was taken by it all, and when it came time to apply to colleges, I chose OU. I returned to Torrington in the summer after my freshman year, but otherwise have been here ever since. My wife, my four children, my two grandchildren -- they're all Okies. All these years later, whenever anyone asks me how I wound up in Oklahoma from Connecticut, the story begins with Bruce Betts. I sometimes wonder how my life would have been different had I not had him as a teacher. God bless you and your family. Owen Canfield III

Message from Cathy

Owen, I am so touched by your words. Bruce had told me the story of that little kid moving from THS to OU and settling down in Okla. I am truly grateful for all the kind words his students have conveyed. It has touched our hearts and makes it a little easier each day to know that Bruce is at peace and has left us a little better off to have been a part of his life. Again, thank you, Owen. Best to you and your family, Cathy

A candle was lit by Lou Basso on January 18, 2018 3:28 PM

A candle was lit by Bob Gautieri on January 18, 2018 2:51 PM

A candle was lit by Diane Minutillo on January 18, 2018 2:42 PM

Message from Diane Minutillo

Cathy, Kelly, Michael and Family;

My sincere condolences to you! Bruce was a great friend to my family! I will always remember the happy times that we all had together. He has gone "Home" and will forever watch over all of you!
Diane Minutillo

Message from Mark Wall

Mr. Betts was my History Teacher & my love of History is due in large part to having such a Charismatic, Devoted & Gifted Teacher such as he. He loved his Job & his Passion for Teaching shined through Every Single Day. The Obituary Photo that was chosen shows his Caring Smile which Any of Us who knew him can Remember, even 40 Years later in My Case. R.I.P. Mr. Betts (He told me after THS I could call him Bruce, but I never felt comfortable with that). My Heartfelt Condolences go out to the entire Betts Family. I hope the impact Mr. Betts had on so many lives is of some comfort to all of you whilst mourning a man taken far too young, but he will Always be Remembered as a Shining Example to ALL who knew him.

Message from Cathy Betts

Dear Mark,
Thank you so much for sharing with us your experience with Bruce. His love for history and world events also made an impact on me. We could spend hours talking about past and present world events (not always agreeing, but always listening and making each other think). How I will miss him! Again, thank you.
Cathy

A candle was lit by Terry Massicotte on January 18, 2018 1:33 PM

Message from Terry Massicotte

So sorry to hear this news; Mr. Betts was a great teacher, loved by all. He made History class interesting instead of boring way back in the 60's at THS. Another young at heart person, gone too soon. My condolences to the family, may he rest in peace.

A candle was lit by Heather Jones Grustas on January 18, 2018 12:35 PM

A candle was lit by Jamie Lemieux on January 18, 2018 12:33 PM

Message from Lana Peck

When I was a shy, depressed 15 yr old with low self esteem (we’re called targets of bullying now), Mr. Betts believed in me. He recognized my potential the first week of class and invited me to join his honors class. He was a friend and advocate during some tough years. I am forever grateful to him. I am saddened to hear of his passing.

Message from Cathy Betts

Dear Lana, Thank you so much for remembering Bruce. Your kind words will now help me through some rough waters. You take care Lana.
Regards, Cathy

A candle was lit by Lisa Garrison on January 18, 2018 12:23 PM

Message from Christina Minutillo

Cathy, Michael, Kelly, and Family,
I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your husband and dad. I always remember him as always smiling and a good friend to my dad. He is no longer in pain now and he is now your guardian angel. My deepest condolences to you.
Best, Christina Minutillo

Message from Cathy

Dear Christina, Thank you so much for thinking of us. Your words have touched my heart and I know he will be our guardian angel forever. Hope to see you soon. You know - you are one of my favorite people! Love, Cathy

Message from Janet

Dear Cathy and family,
I'm so sorry for your loss. Loving thoughts and prayers flowing to you.
Janet Henneberry

Message from Steve,Gail and Heather Jambo

To the Betts family, Bruce was great friend, husband, father, father in law, and papa. He will be missed!,Our thoughts are with you at this time!
Sincerely,Steve,Gail and Heather

A candle was lit by Nick mainella on January 18, 2018 10:41 AM

A candle was lit by Kyla (Fox) Harol on January 18, 2018 10:24 AM

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I’m sure this will be said by many more, but Mr. Betts was one of the greats. He made me love and enjoy history. He made it exciting and memorable. He truly cared for his students and built each of us up. I’m honored I was able to have such an inspirational man as a teacher. His smile and impact on others will not be forgotten. Sending prayers of comfort to his family.

Message from Vanessa Bresson

A teacher like none other; who had the unique ability to make students generally uninterested in learning be so for a little while. That was me. But more, there was such a shine to him, such true goodness, humor and openness and ability to connect, to really see his students. I honor you, Mr, Betts, and give a deep bow of gratitude.

A candle was lit by Kyla (Fox) Harol on January 18, 2018 10:21 AM

A candle was lit by Debbie Degennaro on January 18, 2018 10:16 AM

A candle was lit by Elise Levesque on January 18, 2018 9:56 AM

Message from Karen Wyzykowski Rehermann

Mr. Betts was the kindest and most caring teacher, he made studying history pleasurable. His teaching style was upbeat and interactive and he always had the greatest smile! He will be sadly missed at our class of '72 reunions.
Condolences to the family, Rest in Peace, Mr. Betts...

A candle was lit by Kathi Telman on January 18, 2018 9:51 AM

A candle was lit by John & Michele Ciesco on January 18, 2018 9:39 AM

A candle was lit by Patrick maher on January 18, 2018 9:35 AM

A candle was lit by Carolyn and Dana Mosher on January 18, 2018 9:17 AM

Message from Carolyn and Dana Mosher

To Cathy and Family,
We were very saddened to hear of Bruce's passing. He was a well known and respected man. Please accept our deepest sympathy. Sincerely, Carolyn and Dana

A candle was lit by Mary Ellen & Dave Harmon on January 18, 2018 9:02 AM

Message from Mel Harmon

Dear Cathy, Kelly, Michael, and all the family, please accept my sincere condolences. Bruce was such a special person and I have lots of fun memories of you all. I just keep telling myself he is at peace now, and at home, as he wished. He will be greatly missed here, though. (He was a great dancer, too!)

A candle was lit by Cheryl Stoughton Knox on January 18, 2018 8:46 AM

Message from Bruce Carlson

Bruce was one of my favorite teachers in High School 1974. He was a great teacher and person and will be missed. Our prayers are with his family.

Message from Kathy (Kulinski) Newkirk class of 1972

I did not have him for a teacher but he always had a smile when you walked by him. He was a great class advisor for class of 1972. Prayers are with the family. RIP Mr. Betts. Till we meet again

A candle was lit by Kathy (Kulinski) Newkirk on January 18, 2018 8:25 AM

A candle was lit by Sherri Brennan Dadomo on January 18, 2018 8:16 AM

A candle was lit by Diane LaGamba and Mark Zukowski on January 18, 2018 8:06 AM

A candle was lit by Janis Pastorello Martin on January 18, 2018 8:03 AM

A candle was lit by Cary & Karen Carmignani on January 18, 2018 7:22 AM

A candle was lit by Denise Fay on January 18, 2018 7:18 AM

Message from John & Cathy Todor

Cathy and family, We were so sorry to hear about Bruce. He was such a great guy and always had a smile for everyone. Hope you all are doing okay. John & Cathy todor

A candle was lit by Sandy Giampaolo on January 18, 2018 7:14 AM

A candle was lit by Marie Elena (Eucalitto) Pecha on January 18, 2018 7:11 AM

A candle was lit by Ken Simpkin on January 18, 2018 6:58 AM

Message from Anthony sager

Rest in peace be mr.betts you were a great teacher and a wonderful man God bless you sir our,class members will never forget you!! Your were such an inspiration to many of your students.condolences to your family in there grieving

A candle was lit by Travis Bachand on January 18, 2018 6:50 AM

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A candle was lit by Steve & Victoria Liddle Morando on January 18, 2018 6:34 AM

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Message from Kathy Ahern

I am saddened to hear of the passing of Bruce. I worked at torrington high school when Bruce was a teacher there. An amazing teacher, a kind hearted man. My prayers and thoughts go out to Cathy and your family.

Message from LeeAnne Marciano

I am sorry for your loss. Mr. Betts was a wonderful man.

A candle was lit by Tina Mariani on January 18, 2018 5:57 AM

Message from Emily

He was the only reason I stayed in high school... such a good heart

Message from Jeanne pereira

My condolences to his family. He was a wonderful teacher. One of the best. Rest in peace

A candle was lit by Jeanne pereira on January 18, 2018 4:51 AM

A candle was lit by Emily Steina on January 18, 2018 4:48 AM

A candle was lit by Paulette Burkhart on January 18, 2018 4:07 AM

Mr. Betts was one of the best teachers I had through all my schooling. He always had a smile and was so encouraging to students. I hope you find peace in his passing knowing that during his life and career he had a positive impact on so many young minds. I graduated THS in 1994 and shared with my own children memories of my classes with him. May he Rest In Peace and deepest sympathies are with you all in this difficult time. Sincerely, Cheryl Nardine Burke

A candle was lit by Greg Summa on January 18, 2018 3:33 AM

A candle was lit by Steve Sulkazi on January 18, 2018 2:13 AM

Message from Carlos Adames

I believe I knew him, whata shame. May he rest in peace.

Message from Patricia Telman Buonocore

I truly remembered him as such a kind and lovely man. He always remembered your name when he would see you. My heart goes out to him and his family.
Most Sincerely, PattyTelman Buonocore

A candle was lit by Carla Derrickson on January 18, 2018 12:07 AM

A candle was lit by Jason Eichner on January 17, 2018 11:40 PM

A candle was lit by Lori Shedd-Nickerson on January 17, 2018 11:29 PM

A candle was lit by Rob Mueller on January 17, 2018 11:22 PM

A candle was lit by Amy on January 17, 2018 11:19 PM

Message from Patty Rae

Kathy, I’m so sorry to hear about Bruce. The two of you made such a great couple. You two were always smiling and happy, even grocery shopping! My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

A candle was lit by John Berg on January 17, 2018 10:45 PM

A candle was lit by Susan O'Dell Reininger on January 17, 2018 10:44 PM

A candle was lit by Vincent Oles on January 17, 2018 10:36 PM

A candle was lit by Angie Staino-Zavatkay on January 17, 2018 10:33 PM

Message from Tim Gartner

A truly caring and wonderful teacher from my years at THS in 1969. A truly inspirational to those like myself who became life long teachers.

A candle was lit by Carissa LeJeune-Macia on January 17, 2018 10:28 PM

A candle was lit by Chris Mazur on January 17, 2018 10:27 PM

A candle was lit by Drake Waldron on January 17, 2018 10:24 PM

Message from Deborah Josefow Bloxsom

So very saddened to here of the loss of one the best teachers I have ever had. His picture is just how I remembered him with that perfect kind smile! Always there to help solve problems and make learning fun.
Thank-you Mr. Betts for making such an impact on my life!
Prayer go out to your family

A candle was lit by Kathy Tourloupis-Grossman on January 17, 2018 9:58 PM

A candle was lit by Lee Fitzpatrick on January 17, 2018 9:58 PM

Message from Former student

He was such a passionate and kind teacher. I remember his wit and intelligence decades later at 45.

A candle was lit by Frances Julian on January 17, 2018 9:50 PM

Message from Frances Julian

Bruce Betts was by far one of the most well loved , respected teachers and man. His smile was infectious and remembered who I was even less than a year ago. He loved his students and treated us with respect and got down to our level of thinking like crazy teenagers. Mr. Betts, you were loved by all. The Lord wants you to be his angel. May your family stay strong. My deepest condolences.

A candle was lit by Colleen Mullen on January 17, 2018 9:44 PM

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A candle was lit by Carole Zublena Campbell on January 17, 2018 9:44 PM

Message from Rich Lucas (THS '83)

One of my favorite high school teachers! May he rest in peace.

Message from Patty Rae

Kathy I’m so sorry to hear about Bruce! The two of you made such a great couple. Both of you looked happy and smiling all the time, even grocery shopping. My prayers are with you and your family.

A candle was lit by Diane Tobin on January 17, 2018 9:40 PM

A candle was lit by Guy Finn on January 17, 2018 9:35 PM

A candle was lit by Alan Hua on January 17, 2018 9:35 PM

A candle was lit by Cindy Payne on January 17, 2018 9:34 PM

A candle was lit by Lisa Matey Jacobs on January 17, 2018 9:34 PM

Message from Jim Fournier

My thoughts and prayers go out to the family and friends of Bruce. I didn’t have him as a teacher, I went to Reg 7, but he and I were on the same bowling team for a few years and we became friends. At the bowling alley people would tell me - Bruce was my favorite teacher in high school. I can understand why. Bruce was always happy, smiling and enjoying life. RIP Bruce. Until we meet again.

A candle was lit by Christopher Liddle on January 17, 2018 9:31 PM

A candle was lit by Kat Goodman Silva on January 17, 2018 9:28 PM

Message from Mark Marchetti

I graduated THS in 1985. Bruce was one of the best teachers I ever had. Entertaining, caring, practical, efficient. He effortlessly captivated the classroom. I chose to participate in an optional "how to study" session he offered after school. The techniques he shared have helped me with college, career, licensing, and music. I continue to use them today. So sorry for your loss.

A candle was lit by The Jeans Family on January 17, 2018 9:27 PM

A candle was lit by Mike Kelly on January 17, 2018 9:26 PM

Message from Lindsay Raymond

Mrs Betts,
I’m so sorry to hear of the passing of your husband. He was a great man and wonderful teacher. He will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Lindsay Raymond

A candle was lit by Lindsay Baker on January 17, 2018 9:26 PM

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A candle was lit by Michelle Bement Skibesky on January 17, 2018 9:02 PM

Message from Linda Salamacha

I'm so very sorry for your loss.My late husband John and I both really liked him as a teacher.

A candle was lit by Wilette McCarthy Murphy on January 17, 2018 9:00 PM

A candle was lit by Mark Zavatkay on January 17, 2018 8:59 PM

A candle was lit by Liz Morro on January 17, 2018 8:58 PM

A candle was lit by Laurie Jones Graboski/ THS Class of 1986 on January 17, 2018 8:58 PM

Message from Liz

So sorry to hear of your passing. You were a great teacher and I will always remember your wonderful smile! 😢🙏🏻

A candle was lit by Linda Salamacha on January 17, 2018 8:56 PM

A candle was lit by Sarah Covelli and Rachel Filippi on January 17, 2018 8:56 PM

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A candle was lit by Jennifer Musick (McMahon) on January 17, 2018 8:42 PM

Message from Joanne Donne

Kathy
Very saddened to hear about Bruce. He was the BEST class advisor any high school student could ask for. He continued to support us and so did you through all the years.

A candle was lit by Beth Lowell on January 17, 2018 8:39 PM

A candle was lit by The Gioia family on January 17, 2018 8:39 PM

A candle was lit by Dennis & Carol Hannon. Our condolences to your family. on January 17, 2018 8:38 PM

A candle was lit by Amy Iffland on January 17, 2018 8:34 PM

Message from Debbie Pietrefase Gutowski

Mers B. So sorry to hear that he is gone. He was a great teacher and a good class advisor. We will miss him at our next reunion. Class of ‘72.

A candle was lit by Jennifer Apruzzese on January 17, 2018 8:32 PM

A candle was lit by Gina Yarocki on January 17, 2018 8:31 PM

A candle was lit by Forrest F. Hoxie on January 17, 2018 8:30 PM

A candle was lit by Diana Kinosh on January 17, 2018 8:30 PM

A candle was lit by Cathy Robbins on January 17, 2018 8:29 PM

Message from Trevor Kincaid

Mr. Bett's was a great teacher. A positive influence on so many lives. So sorry to see this today. Best wishes and stay strong.

A candle was lit by Denise (Finello)Tucker ‘74, May God’s Peace Be With You on January 17, 2018 8:28 PM

A candle was lit by Erika Muik Oliphant on January 17, 2018 8:28 PM

A candle was lit by Julie Jacob on January 17, 2018 8:25 PM

A candle was lit by Lisa DeSanti on January 17, 2018 8:24 PM

A candle was lit by Beth (Dlugokinski) Ducatelli on January 17, 2018 8:24 PM

A candle was lit by Denee Kerr on January 17, 2018 8:24 PM

A candle was lit by Kim Rinaldi-Hunt on January 17, 2018 8:24 PM

A candle was lit by Judy, THS class of 1969 on January 17, 2018 8:23 PM

A candle was lit by Tami Ostroski on January 17, 2018 8:23 PM

Message from Marilyn Relva-Papcun

Not only was Mr. Betts my daughter's favorite teacher but I had the pleasure of working with him for years when he was a member of Litchfield County Board of REALTORS, Inc. He was the nicest, kindest and most gentle man! I can't imagine your loss! Please know that you all are in my heart and prayers. I know there is a special place in heaven for this wonderful man!

A candle was lit by Lynn Whittaker on January 17, 2018 8:21 PM

A candle was lit by Angela & Jack Pollutro & Family on January 17, 2018 8:20 PM

A candle was lit by Allen Gunn on January 17, 2018 8:19 PM

A candle was lit by Melody duval aka mclane on January 17, 2018 8:19 PM

A candle was lit by Lorie Spuck on January 17, 2018 8:17 PM

A candle was lit by Frances Bazzolo Louchen on January 17, 2018 8:16 PM

A candle was lit by Anne Marie Filippini on January 17, 2018 8:15 PM

A candle was lit by Judy Masucci on January 17, 2018 8:14 PM

A candle was lit by Melissa Goldring on January 17, 2018 8:13 PM

Message from Frank Conforti

Mr Betts, a wonderful educator and very nice man. He was a favorite at THS, for many of us who graduated 1974. I'm sure many many other classes as well. My condolences to his family.

A candle was lit by Karla (Gradowski) Todd on January 17, 2018 8:12 PM

A candle was lit by Susan McLeod on January 17, 2018 8:10 PM

Message from Lauren Ryan

I am so sorry for your loss. I have fond memories of history class (especially his encyclopedic knowledge of films). He once let our class organize a field trip to the Clark Art Institute and somehow tied it back to our curriculum. Hopefully these words and so many condolences provide some comfort to you all.

A candle was lit by Cindy Pezze Perugini / THS Class of 76 on January 17, 2018 8:08 PM

A candle was lit by Sal Canino on January 17, 2018 8:07 PM

Message from Sal Canino

Such a great man. May God Bless you and your family.

A candle was lit by Tom Whittaker on January 17, 2018 8:05 PM

A candle was lit by Cindi DiPippo on January 17, 2018 8:04 PM

Message from Heidi Laus

Mr Betts had an impact of thousands of students that passed through Torrington High. While I did not have Mr Betts as a teacher, he made a point to stop and chat with me from time to time. Now that I’m an educator myself, I know building relationships is what is most important to kids. Mr Betts was a great role model. My condolences to your family.

A candle was lit by Pat Reynolds on January 17, 2018 8:03 PM

A candle was lit by Charmaine Piekos on January 17, 2018 8:00 PM

A candle was lit by Debbie DiNatale on January 17, 2018 7:56 PM

Message from John Tuozzo

I want to extend my deepest sympathy to the entire Betts family - you are in my thoughts & prayers. Mr. Betts was one of my favorites at THS and he will always be in my memories. RIP

A candle was lit by Melissa Reginatto on January 17, 2018 7:56 PM

A candle was lit by Sandi Conforti on January 17, 2018 7:55 PM

Message from Sandi Conforti

I am saddened to see that Mr Betts has passed. He was my favorite teacher at THS. The last time I saw him was at the ELKS and he remembered me after all these years. My heart goes out to his family during this very difficult time. RIP Rest in Paradise

Message from Sara McKenna

To the Betts Family - I’m so very sorry for your loss. Mr Betts was a phenominal teacher who was dedicated to the success of every one of his students. I used the note taking and study skills he taught me all the way through law school and thought of him often over the years as I did. My deepest condolences.

A candle was lit by Betsy O'Brien on January 17, 2018 7:49 PM

A candle was lit by Channea barron on January 17, 2018 7:48 PM

A candle was lit by Michele Bushey on January 17, 2018 7:46 PM

A candle was lit by David Nolab on January 17, 2018 7:45 PM

A candle was lit by Tom O'Connor and Sandra Meda on January 17, 2018 7:42 PM

A candle was lit by Kelly Curtiss on January 17, 2018 7:41 PM

A candle was lit by Kristen Lamanna on January 17, 2018 7:41 PM

A candle was lit by TJ Flinn on January 17, 2018 7:40 PM

A candle was lit by Lori Sparks on January 17, 2018 7:35 PM

A candle was lit by Cheryl Fritz on January 17, 2018 7:34 PM

A candle was lit by Christina Stack on January 17, 2018 7:34 PM

A candle was lit by Lynn Downs on January 17, 2018 7:33 PM

A candle was lit by Tom mobilia on January 17, 2018 7:32 PM

Message from Ken Thomas

My condolences to the family Bruce was a great man and a dedicated teacher,rest in peace.Ken Thomas former head Custodian Torrington High School.

A candle was lit by Jessica Goring on January 17, 2018 7:22 PM

A candle was lit by Dave & Shay DeForge on January 17, 2018 7:16 PM

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To Cathy and family- Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Seeing Bruce's picture here made us smile and remembered him doing just that. We were blessed to share many great times with you both and will continue to remember those times with love in our hearts! Xxoo Dave & Shay

A candle was lit by Melanie (Lovato) Giarnese on January 17, 2018 7:13 PM

A candle was lit by Rhonda Bascetta on January 17, 2018 7:11 PM

Message from Nina Rubino-Phalen

What a wonderful man! Bruce was always such a joy to be around. This picture captures who he was and how I will remember him. It was so grand to have him tutoring with me for many years. He really had a dry sense of humor.

My sincerest condolences to the entire family. Yes, he is home. God bless you all.
Bruce will be truly missed.

Message from Cathy Betts

Nina, your words do mean a lot to me and the family. Thank you.

Cathy Betts

A candle was lit by Lisa Marecki on January 17, 2018 7:07 PM

A candle was lit by Jean Cronin on January 17, 2018 7:01 PM

A candle was lit by Shawn Ahlman on January 17, 2018 7:00 PM

A candle was lit by Susan Coppinger on January 17, 2018 6:59 PM

A candle was lit by Christine cataldo on January 17, 2018 6:56 PM

A candle was lit by Lorilee Charette Gioia on January 17, 2018 6:56 PM

Message from Rhonda

Mrs Betts I am so saddened to see this :( Mr Betts was my favorite teacher and for him to continue to recognize me after all these years and always take the time to say hello was something I will never forget, he was such a wonderful man ...my deepest sympathy to you and your family ......hugs and prayers
Love Rhonda Bascetta

Message from Cathy Betts

Thank you Rhonda for your kind words.
Cathy